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coyote-1 t1_iwxgvti wrote

Reply to comment by ginga_bread42 in Psychologists demonstrate why feeling appreciated is particularly important for avoidantly attached individuals by chrisdh79

This is the thing: I rarely mention the stuff I do. I hope it’s noticed. It rarely is. And then in those rare moments when I do say “look what I’ve done”, it is immediately countered with “but I do things for us too”.

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ginga_bread42 t1_iwxhomh wrote

When I say "I" in my comment, I mean that I'm the one with the avoidant attachment. I also dont point stuff out unless I'm essentially forced to.

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