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dercheeseburger t1_j62lybr wrote

‘The Body Keeps the Score’ by Bessel Van Der Kolk. I read this book. It’s really good and (as a traumatised kid), I felt really sad and heavy when I realised how our minds and bodies absorb our experiences and respond accordingly, and in ways many of us don’t realise or understand.

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georgelopezshowlover t1_j63j5g6 wrote

Great book. Author got fired for abusing employees though. Despite researching trauma, he didn’t mind causing some.

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Somnia_sleeps t1_j63v4xb wrote

Read The Body Never Lies by Alice Miller instead. I think The Body Keeps the Score guy stole her research too.

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provisionings t1_j647jop wrote

It is.. but this latest generation of child raisers seems to have broken the cycle more than any other generation, of course kids are still abused and that is very unfortunate but parents these days do seem a lot more capable of showing love to their children. Boomer parents weren’t so much. They weren’t home ever, they were pretty much done with us as soon as we turned 18 and hardly any of them saved for college…

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