gracie-the-golden t1_j4zso54 wrote on January 19, 2023 at 12:14 PM

Reply to comment by joshsetafire in Family Dynamics and Doctors' Emotions Drive Useless End-of-Life Care. Surveys repeatedly indicate that nearly all people would rather die peacefully at home, yet painful, long-shot treatments remain common, and efforts to reduce usage have failed by Wagamaga

Focus on the small things and getting through day-to-day. Put chapstick on her. Rub her feet. Watch her favorite shows while holding her hand. Cook dinner and include her by asking her to taste test it. Finding joy in the mundane allows you to focus your energy on her living (in whatever capacity she’s capable) vs the impending loss. Much love sent to you.