OP, real talk time. Those who have not struck the genetic lottery do have a little bit tougher of a time, but "ugly" people still get friends and partners. I know this because I see it all the time.

And I put ugly in quotations because few people walk around thinking "oh that's an ugly person". They're just a person and when you get to know someone, their personality is how you view them, not their appearance.

What seems to be your problem is not anything about how you look, but your personality. I don't know how you expect anyone to read a comment like this and come away thinking "wow, this is a really chill person, why is nobody their friend?"

If you act anything close to the way you are acting here in real life, I would seriously suggest working on that. I know you said no shrinks, but you're kinda inviting it.

By the way, I'm never invited to parties either and while I'm not a 10, I'm also not "ugly". I have a reserved/awkward personality and that has held me back in the social world. And a lot of those "ugly" people have a way better social life than me because they are a joy to be around. I know this and fully own it and am working on it. Looks really have less to do with things than you think.