QueenSlapFight t1_j80is69 wrote
Your grandparents are liable for your well being. Your mother's permission doesn't mean anything and you know it. Technically your boyfriend committed a crime and contributed to the delinquency of a minor. You've gotten off fairly unscathed, be more mature next time.
letmeseesubreddits t1_j80j3tb wrote
my mother has legal custody over me. my grandparents are my guardians. what my mom says goes over what they say legally, but they don’t think so and choose to ignore that. they only called the police because they weren’t happy with it. my boyfriend is also 17, it was not a crime.
QueenSlapFight t1_j80jjfc wrote
It is a crime even if your boyfriend is a minor. Even if he isn't liable, then his parents are. If your grandparents are your guardians, don't be surprised if there's an issue with you missing overnight. You aren't emancipated yet. Deal with it. Everyone does.
letmeseesubreddits t1_j80k0o4 wrote
my mother is my main legal guardian, they are only side ones since i live with them as well as her. there should have been no issue if i got permission from my own mother and had family besides her (such as my brother) who also knew where i was/have my location and told them so when they called. my grandparents chose to ignore it all and blow everything out of proportion anyway.
QueenSlapFight t1_j80kcog wrote
Well now you know if you go missing your guardians are going to have a problem with it. As if you didn't already know.
letmeseesubreddits t1_j80l2nf wrote
unfortunately they say they’re doing to keep doing it after i turn 18, after i already threatened no-contact if they continue after that point. they would do the same thing to my mom when she was in her mid 20’s and working two jobs in a city two hours away. it got her fired because they kept calling her workplaces every day. at one point they got it into their heads that she “ran off to mexico”, and worse things ensued after that.
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