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Eldryanyyy t1_ja7d8mo wrote

This isn’t equivalence in lap dances. He can’t brag about getting one then get offended when you want one without looking like a massive hypocrite.

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Mafro_Man t1_ja7h0lg wrote

There's a huge bloody difference between getting a lap dace while you're single compared to when you're in a relationship.

Get your head straight, mate

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja7rr1q wrote

What's the difference? What exactly is the harm in a lap dance?

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Mafro_Man t1_ja7t48j wrote

In what mental gymnastics world would you be fine with the idea of your partner getting sexually danced on by someone (that most likely will look far more attractive than you) of the opposite sex?

The harm is going against what ops partner wants, potentially causing a rift in their relationship.

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Capable-Site-301 t1_ja7te8x wrote

I'm completely fine with my wife getting a lap dance. It doesn't hurt anyone and she enjoys it. In fact, I watched her get one once.

All in good fun.

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Achadel t1_ja7pbtg wrote

Saying you got one before the relationship and didn’t even enjoy is a far cry from bragging about something. What even is there to brag about with a lapdance? The stripper is literally just doing her job, its like bragging about going through the checkout line.

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