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nadzicle t1_ja7gyp1 wrote

  • deleted my original first paragraph because it was kind of dicky -

Can someone explain the downvotes on the valid comments (imo) about him being insecure? And I mean someone who did the downvoting because we can make assumptions about whoever’s downvoted as also being insecure but it doesn’t really give me their line of thinking. I’m kinda confused/curious and just would love to know.

It’s cute in a way that he thought he could just give you a lap dance and it would somehow work, but it’s also insecure of him in the sense of he doesn’t want some dude dancing on you. Idk if he actually said he was uncomfortable or anything, but I do wonder if it would have been fine if you’d said you wanted one from a woman. He could have handled the situation better for sure, but points for trying? I hope he apologised for knocking the air out of your lungs though, lol.

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SeventyFootAnaconda t1_ja7xucs wrote

It's not insecure to not want your gf to get lap dances from random men. Ffs, what next, it's insecure for men to not want their partners to fuck other men?

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lostmindz t1_ja7pu12 wrote

meh, sounds like they are both pretty insecure... OP here is the one who got all put out that this guy went to a strip club before he even met her 🙄

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nadzicle t1_ja7thlr wrote

She said that it was a comment made in jest. I guess unless she decides to give us more context with his behaviour and her thoughts on it, we won’t know. Otherwise, yeah, both insecure.

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SlabOmir t1_ja8n3hd wrote

Sounds like maybe you're too secure.

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