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t1_j8jz377 wrote

I definitely feel like you guys are not as platonic as you think, I have never asked my partner if he ever slept with his best friends (both m/f), because I never felt any sexual energy between them. You just need to be up front with your next partner, and maybe work with your friends to remove this sexual energy between you guys if you want the relationship to be a truly platonic friendship.

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t1_j8k9wtz wrote

This. That question wouldn't even come up if y'all were truly platonic.

You don't have to stop being friends, but some distance is probably what's needed in order to clear the sexual energy. And until that happens, I imagine that most partners would be uncomfortable with this dynamic

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