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Kayback2 t1_ja97ppw wrote

There's nothing better to be than that.

It's enough to say it's not for you.

Don't be negative on the sex worker or sex work because it didn't give you what you need.

Honestly at 19 you don't know enough to be making most of the statements you are. You sound like you should really spread your wings a little bit and not go back to your ex. Going back to what's familiar is good and all, but unless you really want it you'll not be happy. And it doesn't sound like either of you are in the right place to be happy.

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StickDock2107 OP t1_ja98e3h wrote

I really want it. And yes, I'm not in the right place and that's why I'm not getting back with my ex right now. But I'm making the efforts to grow as a person and be better and happier, I'm going to therapy. Besides there is very little information in this post to assume anything, I'm just talking about certain events in my life and my personal growth

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F4t45h35 t1_ja9ad5s wrote

We don't have to assume alot when you say things like "only person I've ever loved" at 19.. You're young, probably lots more heartbreak and bad sex on the way. The advice to spread those wings is a solid one.

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