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BusyBoredom t1_j9u9811 wrote

Reply to comment by Successful_Ad_5340 in TIFU by telling my boyfriend his penis is small by [deleted]

This is the male equivalent of being called fat.

Even if a woman bluntly asks you to comment on her weight, is it appropriate to call her fat? No it is not. Same with this, it's just too hurtful. It's "bring a grown man to tears" level of hurtful.

You need to shower this man in love and affection for the foreseeable future. Make him feel fucking beautiful, and don't say another word about your exes.

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DrBDDS t1_j9u9k9p wrote

But you can do something about being fat. Us short wanged dudes? No hope.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9u9xn0 wrote

Yep, it's honestly much worse than being called fat. I just needed an example she could empathize with.

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DrBDDS t1_j9uaa5s wrote

I'd equate it more with calling a woman flat chested. Even then, though, they can have surgery to enlarge them so... There literally is no comparison to telling a man he has a small dick.

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BusyBoredom t1_j9uagff wrote

Yeah, it's easily a relationship-ending level insult.

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DrBDDS t1_j9ual37 wrote

Yeah, I'd NEVER be able to perform with her again. I'd be obsessing with thoughts of how she's laughing at my dick, etc.

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jaytee158 t1_j9ubn80 wrote

I don't think there's a lot of empathy going round with OP

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dogenroll t1_j9ubpme wrote

Her: *makes joke about her small boobs.

Him: well, they’re only slightly below average, haha.

Her: wdym? Omg!!!! That’s true, your exes had bigger boobs!!! Do you still like me?

Him: of course I like you. I can’t fit my head in between your boobs but that just means i’m closer to your heart. Being below average is good. I enjoy you :) plus, in the past i could get a boob job, but i dont want that, i just want to be close to your heart :)

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