redditing_Aaron t1_jdfd8y7 wrote on March 24, 2023 at 12:04 AM

Reply to comment by idi0t99 in TIFU by telling me best friend I had feelings for her by idi0t99

Just one thing you have to think about is if you will be okay whenever she ends up in a new relationship. Would you be comfortable being around? You don't have to force yourself into a friendship if you feel uncomfortable.

idi0t99 OP t1_jdfh4ry wrote on March 24, 2023 at 12:32 AM

That's honestly what I'm struggling to figure out right now. I have a very strong feeling that I'm going to spiral when it does happen and that's obviously not good.

But, it has been a few days since I posted this and to be honest nothing has changed, we fell right back into our normal ways without any awkwardness. I'd like to tell myself that I'm mature enough to handle it, but I just don't know.