Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_jdcm5gm wrote on March 23, 2023 at 1:13 PM

Listen bud you gotta storm the fucking beach and take her by surprise. Go to a lawyer QUIETLY get the divorce drawn up QUIETLY and let that cheating bitch know that YOU want the divorce. Don't let her tell you any different. You deserve better. Leave that pass around and focus on making the best life you can for your kids. You'll be happier than you've ever been before

Speaking from REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE

IratherNottell t1_jdcw35k wrote on March 23, 2023 at 2:25 PM

This 110% man. It sucks, but you have to deal with reality. And the reality is, she is not the loving, caring partner you deserve. She is now in dorect competition with you for ypur happiness. She is not a full blown enemy because you need to be as cordial as possible for the kids to have the best life they can; but she is not a teammate in life either.

Do what is best for you and your kids.