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Cijj t1_iqlt9wv wrote

Well, you were looking up NSFW material during your grandmas funeral.

You should’ve just cried. I don’t get the whole “pushing to not let that happen” thing anymore. Just cry sometimes, it feels good and it’s a necessary relief valve for your emotions. You know, like being horny just for other things.

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[deleted] OP t1_iqltmpi wrote

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Cijj t1_iqltw0q wrote

I can totally relate to that spiraling into the NSFW thoughts :D you just backed yourself into a corner. I usually feel suffocated because I fight it back. It took me a while but once you just let those tears flow and ugly cry you’ll realize how liberating that can be.

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Pea-and-Pen t1_iqmdwsj wrote

I don’t think people can always control their emotions during grief. My husbands aunt committed suicide and my mother in law was truly distraught. They were very close and it came out of nowhere for her. During the visitation my mother in law started laughing really loud in the chapel. The aunts husband was glaring at her and it was so very awkward.

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kochameh2 t1_iqmc18i wrote

>You know, like being horny just for other things.

so crying is just like masturbating the sad part of your brain and the tears are the ejaculate of your heart

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Fury2525 t1_iqmi131 wrote

This is not something I thought I'd read today, but I'm glad I did.

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jeromebettis11 t1_iqlwah3 wrote

If you're about to cry and don't want to, stop and think about baseball

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loosecanon413 t1_iqm28b1 wrote

Context clues tell us OP is a Brit. So maybe cricket or something. Or maybe baseball will still work? Perhaps its boner-killing powers know no international boundaries?

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