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857477458 t1_ir68lxe wrote

You didn't fuck up, she's just being a hypocrite. If she's going to bring up your past then you have every right to bring up hers.

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mostly_browsing t1_ir6eqid wrote

Eh the vicious wording was a fuckup lol

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AlleyCatStoner t1_ir6fnk6 wrote

Was it? It’s kinda the literal truth lmao

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Catalyst100 t1_ir6gox7 wrote

Yeah but there's more diplomatic ways of saying it. Pick and choose your battles, else ye will be constantly battered by the waves.

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djb_avul t1_ir6h1c6 wrote

Why be tactful with someone whos clearly manipulating OP?

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No_Love_1353 t1_ir7edjp wrote

OP is already getting batteries by the waves when he’s browbeat by his SO for knowing people from his (innocent) past.

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4_Legged_Duck t1_ir6gww6 wrote

It was hurtful and hits on an insecurity and no reason OP should have gotten that defensive. It would have been far calmer to stick with how she's friends with her exes and ask how it's different. Let people die on their hypocrisy or see the error of their ways. Getting nasty won't help a relationship.

I'm guessing she realized she was being petty pretty quick too.

Some of y'all are so quick with anger and revenge. o.O

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UserRemoved t1_ir6i41g wrote

Vicious would be something derogatory. His wording was negligible.

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