THE_ORIGAL t1_iuck3o1 wrote on October 30, 2022 at 8:28 AM

Well, as an advice, if you fuck up something, apologize. No one likes people who don't apologize.

I don't see any other option then going there and talking to him, or maybe text him. And I think that in both cases, you should tell him that you really miss him, and you've fucked up, apologize and, depending on the type of person, ask him to go out somewhere and talk about this. For sure, you need balls to do this, but you don't really have any other option.

I have a question, you're in your school years and you already are an ftm? And how does it work, who are you attracted to? Sorry for these questions, I'm just curious.

Peachm1lk0 OP t1_iucnjxl wrote on October 30, 2022 at 9:18 AM

Thank you for the advice! And I have considered apologizing I just feel it's 6 months too late so I struggle even considering it but I might if I ever catch him in the halls again. As far as my identity questions I'm fine with answering. I used to identify as ftm though now I identify as non binary. But my sexuality I consider to be bisexual. I kinda just always knew I wasn't a girl (Though some trans people don't 100% figure out growing up) so I immediately thought I was just a guy but after transitioning for 2 years it still felt wrong so I de transitioned completely though being a "girl," still didn't sit well with me. So now I identify as enby and as far as attraction it's stayed the same. I've always liked guys and girls and it never changed through my transition. Though that is just my personal experience and I know some people figure out their sexualities as they're transitioning. At the end of the day though I just feel like me. I don't like to label my gender, I just see myself as a person y'know. So, I don't mind people seeing me as a boy or girl. But personally I don't feel like either. Hope that cleared up some things!! Or not haha

THE_ORIGAL t1_iucqdhm wrote on October 30, 2022 at 9:59 AM

It's never too late to apologize. But even if he accepts it, he will need some space at first, try not to be obsessed with him.