TIFU Big time

Submitted by i_hate_myself59 t3_yv9ife in tifu

Some pre info. I'm 19 and live w my parents.About one year ago when I didn't had a gf I would commonly go on various sites for "self satisfaction" and once I spotted some site that gets you in contact with woman that are looking for men. Seems like Tinder but only for older women. There horny af I decided that it's a good idea to pay monthly subscription (5USD) to have a chat with the women. I had my credit card connected with the site and it would automatically charge you monthly like all subscription does. About 2 months ago I was like f this, I wasn't getting any chat replies or anything. What am I paying for, so I asked for the cancelation. It verified and said that everything is okay. So today I got a text from my mom telling me wtf is this letter? I was kinda surprised because I rarely get any letters. In the letter it sais that I owe the website roughly 200USD(For postal service etc...). I'm so ashamed that my mother got to see that i had gambled away 200USD, and that I'm one fucking retard who gave out all card info. In the letter it said that they got my address through the ip address. I'm currently at work idk what's next... TL ; DR My mom just got the letter that I've spent 200USD on fake e woman.

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AaliyahK12 t1_iwd2r1w wrote

Yeah you really fucked up my dude.

That sucks though, I'm sorry your horniness and desire for some Milf companionship fucked you over financially.

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Marrsvolta t1_iwdggfs wrote

Tell her it's a scam and call your credit card company to send you a new card with a new number just in case.

Technically it is a scam, but she doesn't need to know all the details.

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i_hate_myself59 OP t1_iwdskug wrote

Yeah but wouldn't that result in just new letter with bigger dept? I l'm really not into law and stuff and idk if they can just get me in court? Ps. their HQ is not in my country

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Spectre92ITA t1_iwj7fk1 wrote

It's 100% a scam, just change cc details and ignore it, it will go away.

Also, it's a private company in another country, even if it were "legal" in any measure, that would only be in their country, and they'd have basically no means to do anything to you anyway.

Really man, just req a new card, and ignore them.

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pdxscout t1_iwdbnwt wrote

Dispute it with your credit card company.

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Pur3strownu t1_iwd643c wrote

Tell her to mind her own business and not go through your mail and take care of it on your own? Youre 19, everyone gets horny and does stupid shit you have no need to explain yourself as a working adult just because you live with them.

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AcrobaticSource3 t1_iwewrow wrote

They can’t get your address through the ip address

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Logical_Ad_1383 t1_iwezir3 wrote

Why is your mom opening your mail who cares what you spend money on.

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ryanhiga2019 t1_iwfisnw wrote

That’s why we join r/pornfree young man

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Spectre92ITA t1_iwj7xrw wrote

I am a horrible person.

First of all I misread the link as freeporn so I went oooh alright let's have a look.

Then I realised, and went oh fair enough, not a bad mindset really and decided to have a look at the threads and spent 10 minutes laughing my ass off because everyone, bless them, is being encouraging because... of how hard it is.

F me sideways I was full on cackling like an idiot and I feel bad now

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ryanhiga2019 t1_iwn3g7w wrote

Ofcourse its hard, as someone who has reduced porn consumption, its one of the very difficult things I had to do. But what it'll do is it'll increase novelty in regular sex so you don't go around the internet spending frivolous money

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Spectre92ITA t1_iwn9wf2 wrote

To clarify in case it's a wee bit too obscure, I fully get it's hard to stop with porn, hell, I just couldn't help but laugh at the concept of something being "hard" while talking about people being horny.

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