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Revocation_Of_Doubt t1_ixrlcic wrote

Reply to comment by HelpMeTHrowaway12243 in TIFU by lying about me being colorblind 9 years ago. by HelpMeTHrowaway12243

Buddy, if this ends your friendship, it wasn't a friendship worth having.

The point of friends is that they forgive and support.

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HelpMeTHrowaway12243 OP t1_ixrlmfx wrote

I Agree but they've been friends for so long ive grown attached which is bad

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Revocation_Of_Doubt t1_ixrlv73 wrote

Then they will understand and forgive... Jeez guy... What's the alternative? Stay quiet forever and have to pretend "oh wow colours!??!"

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Dosagu t1_ixrrrix wrote

You have to know than they'll probably joke about it for the rest of your life, at least i would.

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Droidlivesmatter t1_ixtnh69 wrote

He could get the glasses and then say he doesn't like the feel of the glasses.. he could also say that he's not used to the colors and it feels weird etc.

But you know, the truth is more important.

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Thediamondhandedlad t1_ixrvg60 wrote

I lost an entire friend group over a false accusation from someone else in the friend group who was the actual culprit. They believed him instead of me. Yes it was very traumatic but I’m glad I don’t hangout with those people anymore. They’re all shitty people going nowhere in life anyway. You’ll get over it eventually if you lose them.

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kintyre t1_ixs2yjt wrote

One of my dearest online friends was a girl for the first several years I knew them. Then they admitted their lie. After asking if they were trans (they weren't) I accepted my dear friend as who they actually are. We met a few years ago in person. Still a friendship that's going strong.

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really_nice_guy_ t1_ixs9834 wrote

I mean has your “color blindness” affected anything in a serious way? Like did they go out of their way for you or did they pay for you?

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