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MsWinterbourne t1_j1prvhx wrote

Reply to comment by Melodic-Spite-5918 in TIFU: I molested the girl I like and now I don't know how to live with myself by Melodic-Spite-5918

It was her way to defend herself safely from a person who doesn't understand consent, was drunk and unpredictable, and could over power her. She didn't want you to touch her chest but you were touching her vagina which was scarier and wuickly heading towards rape in her eyes, or fingering which is extremely violating and physically violent. She told you to touch her chest as a way to stop you from raping or assaulting her further without reacting violently in anger at her rejecting you. Not because she WANTED you to touch her chest. It was just the safer of the two assaults.

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MARYAMQUSSIM t1_j1q1yp2 wrote

I agree w you specially that I was shocked when she said that she's not comfortable talking to him when he texted her later cuz it doesn't flatter the fact that she told him that it was ok to touch her tatas so what you're saying makes perfect sense! I really wish I would give her a hug and at the same time I feel the OP's regret and wish he would seek for needed help and personally I don't think I'd be ok w this friendship after something like that even if I fully forgive the person so I'm only hoping for both their comfort within themselves

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Melodic-Spite-5918 OP t1_j1q2dcw wrote

Yeah you're probably right. I do want to mention that I probably am physically weaker then her but at the of the day that doesn't really matter. It was a scary, fucked up situation for her and I can't imagine how much damage I must have caused.

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SlabOmir t1_j1qn051 wrote

Man you seem to have an answer to everything, reading your comments I am getting a politician vibe from you. Just the way you are responding to questions.

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