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OriginalGreasyDave t1_j1qdhyq wrote

You didn't FU. BF's family FUed by not making you feel welcome.

This was the first time you were at the family and they treated you like this?

Ignore the negative comments in this thread.

The basics of hospitality are that if a stranger comes into your home you offer them food. You make sure they aren't thirsty or hungry. You don't set out to make them uncomfortable by asking leading political questions just to get a raise or a reaction.

Why didn't the father offer you something to eat? Why didn't your BF check if you needed anything. You are a guest. If you're the first time there, it's not up to you to start making demands. It's up to them to offer.

IF this family don't know that then you don't want to spend more time with them. Make this clear to your BF and if he can't see it then you're better off without him.

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Squigglepig52 t1_j1qft7n wrote

to be fair - most people aren't going to think, on Christmas Day, that you hadn't bothered to eat for 2 days previously.

this wasn't a case of dinner taking a long time to serve, this was somebody who skipped food for 2 days.

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M002 t1_j1r2d84 wrote

Also, who the f has Christmas dinner at 9:30, without at least doing a big breakfast or appetizers earlier in the day. How did OP not eat??

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