Interesting-Month-56 t1_j2860ie wrote on December 30, 2022 at 9:38 AM

I don’t think you fucked up.

I think the ex and his coworkers are shit on par with Andrew Tate.

Pleasant_Broccoli451 OP t1_j286eq8 wrote on December 30, 2022 at 9:43 AM

It's so crazy to me because he was so nice and supportive while they were together. I could've called him in the middle of the night totally wasted and he would've gone out of his way to help me but after the break up something switched and now he's acting like this.

shardingHarding t1_j28bozm wrote on December 30, 2022 at 10:55 AM

A lot of people are very good at hiding their toxic sides, but to be fair he might have just loved your friend and the pain is unbearable. That said, most bouncers are toxic.

cantnameguzy t1_j29cvng wrote on December 30, 2022 at 4:23 PM

You didnt tell the whole story. From what i read your friend did something shitty and you defended her cause "friends". What happened between them that made him so angry at her?

DownrightDrewski t1_j286ig2 wrote on December 30, 2022 at 9:44 AM

I agree this was not a FU by OP, but I think you're being a bit harsh on these guys by putting them at the same level as that piece of excrement.

They're utter pieces of shit, but, not on his level

Edit - missing words can be important... added a crucial not.