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kn1ghtcliffe t1_j2clq9k wrote

Reply to comment by lemon_peppah_wings in TIFU by going on a Grindr date by FoldPsychological589

I hooked up with a poly girl who had a friend call twice while she was over, and she even had code phrases set up, one she specifically needed to say in order to discreetly let her friend know everything was going okay and not saying it would initiate a rescue mission. She even let me know beforehand that if she failed to answer the phone (which she was slightly worried about due to the expected kinky sexytimes) when her friend called they would be coming to break down my door lol. Seemed like a very good system to me.

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lemon_peppah_wings t1_j2f27k4 wrote

LOL right! Ya almost gotta prepare like a secret spy mission haha

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kn1ghtcliffe t1_j2f556p wrote

It's terrible that people feel the need to take such measures to feel/stay safe but I understand why they do so I never begrudge them for it. I just go into a date expecting her best friend to know my name, face, and address; or wherever it is that we happen to be meeting. And while I find people spending time on their phone during a date to be annoying, for all I know she's updating her friend on her continued safety so I don't make a deal of it.

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