Altruistic_Captain47 OP t1_j4na0gy wrote on January 16, 2023 at 10:32 PM

Reply to comment by Unsure_if_Relevant in TIFU by hooking up with a guy on Grindr by Altruistic_Captain47

His girlfriend doesn't even know that he was Bisexual.

mcm0313 t1_j4obeff wrote on January 17, 2023 at 2:54 AM

He needs to (pun intended) be straight with her. She doesn’t deserve the lies. Neither does OP. Just to be sure, though, next time OP might want to ask directly.

Unsure_if_Relevant t1_j4nbw6t wrote on January 16, 2023 at 10:45 PM

But is he monogamous? Either way sounds like he was a dick and you did nothing wrong

TrashBoyGold t1_j4s4gs7 wrote on January 17, 2023 at 9:47 PM

He’s probably not even bisexual but gay and in the closet.

chaos021 t1_j4nonel wrote on January 17, 2023 at 12:12 AM

😬

Quirky_Movie t1_j4oexn0 wrote on January 17, 2023 at 3:19 AM

Grody.

flip469 t1_j4nwoz2 wrote on January 17, 2023 at 1:11 AM

I'm not gay, but this popped up and was curious so i red it.... "she doesn't know he is bisexual", lemme tell you something dawg.... SHE KNOWS!!!! lol. She mite not want to admit it or talk ab it, but she knows. Congrats on getting laid, btw✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🤪🤪🤪

WulfTyger t1_j4td22d wrote on January 18, 2023 at 2:52 AM

First.. Exasperated sigh.

Second.

Even some bisexual people don't realize it until later in their lives.

Years and years of people being oppressed or hated for liking their own gender kinda makes that hard or terrifying.

I only recently started exploring my bisexuality, I didn't even think I was bi until I was 27. Didn't do anything with any men until 29. I just turned 30.

Third.. Your text is painful to read.