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HopOnTheHype t1_j5vjsas wrote

Reply to comment by jmmixed in TIFU My fiance[38m] posting on reddit and getting destroyed made me [28f] realize I’ve been with a psychopath by marriedtoapsychopath

They should break up with him though, stop trying to tell an abuse victim to stay with their abuser

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dinozero t1_j5vu72r wrote

What did he do that was so abusive other then get laid so she could see it? She’s the one that decided she wanted him so badly she didn’t want anyone else to have him.

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HopOnTheHype t1_j5w2chl wrote

He psychologically manipulated her and ruined the polyamory, she was keeping the girl out of the house and doing all that, he hired someone to do the walk of shame timed to her being there. He broke the boundaries and good nature of the polyamory, and also did a genuinely narcissistic abuser tactic.

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jmmixed t1_j5w137k wrote

Why are you bombing every response? Your comment doesn't relate to mine.

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HopOnTheHype t1_j5w2lbn wrote

You talked as if she should put up with it and just stay in the relationship, I said that’s a bad idea, he’s an abuser. She can either get an abortion or have the kid in a two family scenario where they outright will probably end up with 4 parents

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jmmixed t1_j5w2rqi wrote

You must have been replying to someone else.

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