Dont beat yourself up tho!! I can totally understand where youre coming from and probably women in general, at least sooo many women i know and myself are dealing with something in that area ( its acctually been named “the third shift that falls on women” in my country haha ) and even if it happened 7 years ago there can be lingering triggers that pop up in certain situations. I dont know how well this experience was resolved between you guys at the time or if you were able to express this openly enough to heal but being a new mom is just very challenging in itself and for you to be back at it so soon ( work and school ) i mean… phew