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niko4ever t1_j6d7xcp wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU: Said something hateful to my husband by [deleted]

>At times he has had to buy groceries and pay for my car payment and such when I don’t get my hours at work. He’s held that over my head many times

You raise a child together but have separate finances? Yeah no wonder it's causing tension between you. Why do you have separate groceries of all things?

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[deleted] OP t1_j6d8f61 wrote

We don’t have separate groceries. We separate our finances in which a lot of couples do.

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niko4ever t1_j6dbq1p wrote

So it's your job to pay for groceries?

I know a lot of couples that have completely separate finances, but not any with kids. Especially when one works more or earns more. I guess there's no reason it couldn't be done though.

But it's perfectly normal to want to hold things over his head when he's holding other things over yours.

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