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SerifGrey t1_irqkl7o wrote

Kept comatosed until he passed of dehydration.

Is that a peaceful way to go? is it pain free? would he of known? I know he was put into a coma but what’s the general ease of passing here?

Also here’s an interesting bit of info I found, I have cerebral palsy which is brain damage at birth, however you’d think dementia could be an increased risk factor later in life, as my brain and body went through a stressful brain damage event but apparently people with cerebral palsy have no link to dementia, unless they have some form of epilepsy.

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LorenzoStomp t1_irr7z29 wrote

The first couple days he was in the hospital, he was sedated but would sort of wake up every few hours. His mom had to argue with the Dr to keep him completely under, when I talked to the nurses about how he shouldn't be allowed to wake up one told me, "Let him say goodbye" which was ridiculous because he had the mind of a 2 yr old. He couldn't understand what was happening, just that he was uncomfortable and somewhere strange. Once he was home he was kept completely under so he couldn't be aware of anything and was given morphine along with whatever else they used so he wouldn't feel pain. When he passed he just stopped breathing.

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SerifGrey t1_irrda3c wrote

Thank for the context and information, you are a very empathetic person with a big heart, to be able to witness that, when you knew the outcome, yet you still did your duty to that poor young person. Im 30 now but couple years ago I had to watch my grandad die at his home, and yeah his last breath was rather peaceful and he also had morphine, but his was pancreatic cancer. He lived to a good age and I don't feel sad about it so much now, but thats nothing compared to that poor boy who deteriorated at a young age, Im glad he didn't suffer.

I wonder why people don't do that for assisted death, or death penalty, (sorry I read another post earlier) but slipping into a coma and just lots of morphine whilst dehydration sets in

Thank you for replying and I hope you were able to maintain a firm grip on your own mental health during your working hours, and have good coping mechanisms.

It takes a strong individual to do, what you do.

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Less-Market9641 t1_irvqp43 wrote

Some medical professionals are ridiculously out of touch with obvious things. My friend's dad was 83, had congestive heart failure and dementia so severe that only Haldol kept him from just crazily striking out at nurses and family and going full on psychotic. Then some doctor decided to take take him off the Haldol, because it could make his heart problem worse. The dad went apeshit, nurses couldn't control him, and that sure as hell didn't help his heart. But the doctor refused to put him back on the Haldol, because he felt it negatively impacted this demented, dying man's quality of life. Like somehow being a mindless rage machine flinging his own feces was better? Thank goodness that doc got taken off the case, and the poor old dad was able to be medicated back to calmness for the last few weeks. It was as if the doc couldn't recognize that a mind destroyed by dementia cannot be capable of good quality of life.

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LorenzoStomp t1_irw084t wrote

When my client went to the hospital he was running a high fever. The hospital gave him a small amount of aspirin to reduce it but refused to give more because it might hurt his liver, even though we knew by that time he wasn't going to recover. They also argued about giving him ketamine to keep him under even after his mother explained multiple times that he was resistant to milder sedatives and aggressive when upset/confused.

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