I live in No Virginia and have traveled a decent amount into DC

I would recommend, if possible, to see if you spend a few days or a week or 2 with some friends or even rent an airbnb in DC to get a feel for the city.

There can be lots of cool stuff if you really enjoy the urban vibe, but be cautioned the cost of living when looking at rent, food, going out, parking, et cetera is pre d*** high