You could use a nurses technique of putting an essential oil in your mask to help normally they use menthol but spruce or lemongrass could be nice as well

Wow you just really like to throw hate around eh

Maybe learn how to use hair pins properly or just don't buy something that wouldn't work with your hair... personally I have hair that is almost waist length and thick and I think this would be a lovely price. Perhaps you just need more experience in how to do up dos so you don't get it caught up....don't blame a product for user error!!