You said you lost feelings for him and then towards the end you said you love him so which is it? You two shouldn’t be together. You’re both looking at seeing other people and can’t decide how you feel about one another. Ldr’s are not for everyone and it doesn’t seem to be working for the two of you. End the relationship and stop leading each other on. Just walk away and find someone else. You’re still young and he’s obviously not “the one” for you and you’re not “the one” for him.
You don’t trust each other and you don’t really have feelings for each other. It sounds like you’re just in love with the idea of being in love. Go find the person who’s right for you because he’s not it.
Acceptable_Bear_3591 t1_j6n8mz2 wrote
Reply to Is my(23F) relationship with my bf(26M) a lost cause? by moonchildishh
You said you lost feelings for him and then towards the end you said you love him so which is it? You two shouldn’t be together. You’re both looking at seeing other people and can’t decide how you feel about one another. Ldr’s are not for everyone and it doesn’t seem to be working for the two of you. End the relationship and stop leading each other on. Just walk away and find someone else. You’re still young and he’s obviously not “the one” for you and you’re not “the one” for him.
You don’t trust each other and you don’t really have feelings for each other. It sounds like you’re just in love with the idea of being in love. Go find the person who’s right for you because he’s not it.