Hi op I have been dealing with something incredibly similar. Take this as a break up. I had all the same thoughts as you after 7 years of being in a relationship. I was miserable for months as decisions were repeatedly changed and he was wishy-washy. While it hurts like a fucker to be broken up from who I thought I would spemd my life with I also feel so much lessstressed worrying about all the what ifs of my kind of on kind of off relationship. Take time for yourself.
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Hi op I have been dealing with something incredibly similar. Take this as a break up. I had all the same thoughts as you after 7 years of being in a relationship. I was miserable for months as decisions were repeatedly changed and he was wishy-washy. While it hurts like a fucker to be broken up from who I thought I would spemd my life with I also feel so much lessstressed worrying about all the what ifs of my kind of on kind of off relationship. Take time for yourself.