No, some of us (donor conceived people) blame these donors. Serial donors (especially private ones) know exactly what they are doing. They've spoken to our communities. They know what we dislike, feel trauma over and how we feel about strict sibling limits. They absolutely don't care. These particular donors are narcissistic and this is a borderline fetish for them. Most will only donate by 'natural insemination'.

The clinics aren't connected state to state, so you could donate in each state and conceive the maximum amount of donor conceived children in those states (anywhere between 35 and 100). After that, you could donate privately as much as you wanted.