Take this as a learning experience. When someone sets a boundary (don’t randomly show up at my house) and you choose not to follow it, it’s a huge issue. She had every right to be upset. The fact that you did it numerous times after the fact makes it even worse.
It’s completely normal to have jealous thoughts, especially when you’re inexperienced and insecure. However it’s about the actions that you do as result of them that truly matter and show the lack of maturity. When you’re feeling jealous, communicate it in a healthy way and ask for support to move past those feelings without doing dumb things because of them. Own up to your mistakes and do better the next time.
This one may be lost but take notes and make the change for the next relationship that comes.
Bobbuilds46 t1_j5fwihh wrote
Reply to TIFU by repeatedly doing things my gf doesn't like by [deleted]
Take this as a learning experience. When someone sets a boundary (don’t randomly show up at my house) and you choose not to follow it, it’s a huge issue. She had every right to be upset. The fact that you did it numerous times after the fact makes it even worse.
It’s completely normal to have jealous thoughts, especially when you’re inexperienced and insecure. However it’s about the actions that you do as result of them that truly matter and show the lack of maturity. When you’re feeling jealous, communicate it in a healthy way and ask for support to move past those feelings without doing dumb things because of them. Own up to your mistakes and do better the next time.
This one may be lost but take notes and make the change for the next relationship that comes.