Honestly you're right. Just gotta brush it off, it's simply q good learning experience for me 😋

Yup 😅 haha

I think I will honestly.

That right there, you've hit the nail on the head. I appreciate you! Needed to hear that honestly.

You're right, clearly I mustn't fully trust him. I am certain he wouldn't do anything intentionally but I'm not certain something accidental won't happen.

I'll have a chat with him tonight and see how it goes. Depending on his response I'll give it some time and lay out a boundary that if she becomes a reoccurring theme in our relationship I'm not interested. It's just difficult because I do work in the same place as him and 100% would have to find a different job haha

I feel like he is oblivious to it but I have tried to point it out to him, saying she's had his full attention for four months and now I'm in the picture all of these small little things have started happening. He did mention when he first met her he fancied him (which was max only 4 months ago haha) so I know he finds her attractive. I don't think he's the type of guy to do anything untowards but accidents can happen and that'd be the end of it for me anyway.

Thank you for your reply 💕 I honestly don't see the situation getting better but I also know I'm just done with drama and might be a bit harsh about it, hence this post. Having known him for so long I didn't get the impression he was like this and bless him he's so great about everything else but I truly can't be defending myself against someone he barely knows.

I have caught one ex cheating before and I just had a gut feeling so I went over and another ex I could tell from day one his friend wasn't good news and sure enough she was sneaky and tried him multiple times haha. Funny world.

Thank you so much for your response, unfortunately I know that pattern all too well. I have tried to be so nice to her but she seems to just shrug me off. The first thing she said about me to him is "don't get your heart broken", which? I'm sorry but when my friends get into a relationship I'm excited for them, I don't tell them to be careful without even knowing the person. So I don't think friends is an option.

It's early days in the relationship and I know we work well as friends so I think I'm siding with the idea of just being friends with him. Again thank you.