So 1 year in to this relationship you have both shown interest in other people and done some emotional cheating, have gone through phases of losing feelings for each other, and he didn't support you emotionally after your abortion? The question is not if you can make this work. The question is what the heck are you two still doing together? Do you just both like drama?
The things you listed should not be happening in a healthy and strong new relationship. Just over a year is not a lot of time for this to be going on. You're in your 20s and have an average of 60 more years to go. Do you honestly believe your relationship is going to hold up that long after experiencing the first year like this? The first year should still be honeymoon phase. Cut your losses and hard break it off.
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Reply to Is my(23F) relationship with my bf(26M) a lost cause? by moonchildishh
So 1 year in to this relationship you have both shown interest in other people and done some emotional cheating, have gone through phases of losing feelings for each other, and he didn't support you emotionally after your abortion? The question is not if you can make this work. The question is what the heck are you two still doing together? Do you just both like drama?
The things you listed should not be happening in a healthy and strong new relationship. Just over a year is not a lot of time for this to be going on. You're in your 20s and have an average of 60 more years to go. Do you honestly believe your relationship is going to hold up that long after experiencing the first year like this? The first year should still be honeymoon phase. Cut your losses and hard break it off.