CalmCalmBelong
CalmCalmBelong t1_j6fluo2 wrote
Nihilism is that nothing happens for a reason. Fatalism is that, should nothing happen, it happened for a reason.
(slight /s)
CalmCalmBelong t1_ixqqjzj wrote
Reply to I love The Catcher in the Rye by zak_zman
The way it’s usually taught in high school is deeply flawed: “Holden is a whiner, and he’s an unreliable misanthrope, just like a lot of you, my students, who I now better understand.”
How I came to it as an adult: Holden is clinically depressed, and is actually journaling from the residential house where he’s been institutionalized. I know several families whose kids “spent a semester at school in Utah” and yeah … that’s this. And the reason for his depression is in there, still so painful he can only barely discuss it: it’s grief for the death of his beloved baby brother. Oh, and he was probably molested, that’s in there too.
Back when “how to teach” this book was established, American classrooms simply didn’t discuss depression nor sexual-abuse trauma and its manifestations as fluently as we do now. This book is a triumph in how it communicates that, though it largely fell on deaf ears for a generation.
CalmCalmBelong t1_ix01zx4 wrote
Reply to comment by kittiehawke in Is it worth finishing 1Q84 by Murakami? What do you like about it? by local_fairy
I only got halfway until I gave up. Murakami can totally cast a spell, and (alas) can swing and miss as well.
CalmCalmBelong t1_iv6h5cc wrote
The parent company of 7-11 also has branches of Seven Bank throughout Tokyo. One reason I suppose why the ATMs in Japanese 7-11s are ideal for withdrawing Japanese yen from an American bank account.
CalmCalmBelong t1_ja5wp0t wrote
Reply to comment by sinofonin in What did you think of the Catcher in the Rye? by Hmmmm_Meh
Aye, that second part is often overlooked, especially generationally. When I was in highschool (back when dinosaurs roamed the earth), no one talked about trauma, or depression, or mental health. Literally no one. Today, every parent I know is friends with someone whose child "took a year off and went to school in Utah" and we all know what they're saying.
And even those parents ... so few recall Holden being in a residential program, journalling as part of his treatment, his depression from untreated trauma over his beloved brother's death, his sexual assault experience... Egads we were taught badly.