Chomusuke_99

Chomusuke_99 t1_jc9fza4 wrote

i can only speak from my experience but if anyone is worried of looking stupid or anything like that to pursue your goal, work on that first. that should have been the least of your problem.

“Embarrassment is the cost of entry. If you aren't willing to look like a foolish beginner, you'll never become a graceful master.”

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Chomusuke_99 t1_jc7kooo wrote

hard disagree. the first is easy. the second step is the hardest: consistency. everyone joins the gym in Jan 1 but few follow up. everyone watches a youtube tutorial to learn a skill but few invest time and effort to actually learn it.

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Chomusuke_99 t1_is9g1vc wrote

between comfort zone and anxiety fear zone. there is an achievement zone. that makes you feel like you have done something new and accomplished something. then you invest more and then the fear, low confidence and anxiety kick in. I experience this everytime I try to learn something new. like as simple as bottle flip challenge. first it's exciting. a few lucky shots boosts your morale. you try to make more consistent shot and feel like your skill is actually degrading the more your practice. then little by little you make improvement in a micro scale.

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