You might have forgiven them, but that doesnt mean your friends will.
Dont mix up "Not understanding" with "holding the other person to their own standards for an S.O.". Some people have dirt low standards and need a friend to say 'thats fucked up."
If anything. I'd say dont talk to people who wont respect your boundaries or will be passive aggressive on your behalf. THAT can be an issue if somethings resolved.
But not having a outside perspective is a great way to get manipulated. No no no.
CountlessStories t1_iudivrw wrote
Reply to LPT: Try to keep problems with you and your significant other between the two of you. by Pale_Perception_4927
You might have forgiven them, but that doesnt mean your friends will.
Dont mix up "Not understanding" with "holding the other person to their own standards for an S.O.". Some people have dirt low standards and need a friend to say 'thats fucked up."
If anything. I'd say dont talk to people who wont respect your boundaries or will be passive aggressive on your behalf. THAT can be an issue if somethings resolved.
But not having a outside perspective is a great way to get manipulated. No no no.