Or get head in life.

There was a lot to it. Id have to post a novel if you want more details or have questions dm me but basically we got together at a young age. People grow and change over the years. She decided she wanted to live differently maybe bored with our life. She had several guys trying to get at her that she worked with. One of them she had befriended. I told her he was also out for more. He eventually got his chance she caved obviously and that was that. Things had been rough between us for a little bit. She wants to get back together but there’s just no way.

I recently went through a cheater situation similar to how you caught him. I simply handed her her phone and asked wtf is this. Seemed to work well. She came clean and I explained to her she had just ended our 20 year marriage.

No! Lol. If she wants that she well tell you.

I should add as I was growing up I found out some woman love boob massages. Yes I know it seems like “omg this is real! There is a god!”

Pretty much. It’s complex. You will learn as you go. Sometimes it’s unspoken agreement. Kinda like her showing that tattoo. That was a slight invitation allowing more at a slow pace. Again it’s difficult but you will figure it out as you experience more with others. It would be worth it to talk to her but be soft with the conversation as to not make her feel cornered. She seems Into you. Don’t be scared but be cautious and caring.

From my experience this person laid it out very well. I’m a male and older. Always be gentle and caring unless they ask you to not be. You’re young enough that you’re going to have more awkward experiences. Enjoy them because later you’ll look back fondly on all of them. I can promise you this.

She’s a therapist. If she bothers you about it tell her to build a bridge and get over it.

Perfection. Well done.