DitaVonPita
DitaVonPita t1_j2dcgug wrote
Reply to comment by Killer-Barbie in Baby clothes have pockets but babies have zero need for pockets. Meanwhile women's clothing often lacks pockets when women desperately need them. by HalfLawKiss
Please tell me you're joking, this is not common in my country
DitaVonPita t1_j2dcf8q wrote
Reply to Baby clothes have pockets but babies have zero need for pockets. Meanwhile women's clothing often lacks pockets when women desperately need them. by HalfLawKiss
What I'm gonna say is quite blunt, but... That's because nobody is trying to feminize/sexualize baby clothing, while womens clothing is automatically made to make us more sexually appealing, often removing pockets to accentuate curves or avoiding hiding them. We don't have back pockets because it makes our asses look malformed, don't have front pockets so that our hips don't look bulky. None of this is a concern with babies. And in all honesty, imo, it shouldn't be with women either. If she doesn't want the pocket to bulge she can just keep it empty. 🤦
DitaVonPita t1_iuqj89k wrote
His mom sounds like an angel, I'm happy to hear she gave you her support. Idk if confronting him at this point is even relevant, I'd just make sure everyone is aware that this man calling you slurs actually did physical things with you, something that a straight man could never do. I may be horrible, but I would make sure everyone knows about every kiss, every hug, everything sexual that may have happened. I'd even show people pics and texts. I know it sounds terrible, but it would shift the tables in exactly 3 seconds.
DitaVonPita t1_j2djplo wrote
Reply to comment by Etzlo in Baby clothes have pockets but babies have zero need for pockets. Meanwhile women's clothing often lacks pockets when women desperately need them. by HalfLawKiss
That's upsetting to hear. I honestly am not acquainted with the practice. ☹️