Asking the first time wasn't the fuckup. Trying to wear her down by asking her over and over was.
Ask once for a date, being specific it's a date and not just two friends having dinner or whatever, if she says no move on with your life, don't harass the shit out of her.
I also don't think it's being shitty to spend less time with that person afterwards especially when you find someone who is interested in dating.
DrStrangeloveGA t1_it4gd4d wrote
Reply to TIFU by asking my friend out and destroying our chance of being together. by IAMSRK07
Asking the first time wasn't the fuckup. Trying to wear her down by asking her over and over was.
Ask once for a date, being specific it's a date and not just two friends having dinner or whatever, if she says no move on with your life, don't harass the shit out of her.
I also don't think it's being shitty to spend less time with that person afterwards especially when you find someone who is interested in dating.