sounds like questioning her method was the FU not letting her use it. She was doing fine till you had her explain it to you 😆

nah, I'm not 19 anymore but fuck this, kid has some shitty ways of talking about sex work and should probably reflect on that but other than that this is a big deal in their life and you telling them it's not is real shitty.

Next time you have any issue at all I hope someone who's had it worse or been through it tells you that your feelings aren't a big deal. Lost your house? not a big deal move on, oh you have a medical emergency? Frank was pronounced dead and has to learn how to walk again yours isn't a big deal.

"big" is relative and for a 19 year old who's recently gone through their entire life structure they had changing (because leaving school is hard and a big deal even if you or I went through it a long time and ago and are fine) more changes and questioning what they know, want, and have, are a big deal.