Geshman
Geshman t1_j9yrxch wrote
Reply to comment by RotisserieChicken007 in Greater Manchester Fire and Rescue Service 'bans' use of fireman by nimobo
>CFO Russel told The Bolton News: “As Chief Fire Officer I have set out a clear and positive mission to tackle negative behaviours and attitudes within Greater Manchester Fire and Rescue Service, and to foster an inclusive environment that welcomes and respects all colleagues.
Some shit stirrer: "Is this 'wokeism' gone mad"
Geshman t1_j6f4zvx wrote
Reply to comment by JHtotheRT in LPT Request: What do I do/say when someone is venting to me? by lamelumi_
Yup, it definitely helps with my spouse. Sometimes she doesn't want me to fix something she just wants me to listen
Geshman t1_j69fw3r wrote
You can ask questions directly like:
"do you want me to talk or do you just need me to listen?"
"Do you want advice or someone to listen"
You can listen and repeat back what they say to really understand their problem:
"So you are having trouble with x"
You can do your best to empathize:
"That sounds so tough I'm sorry"
Or, alternatively, you can put up a personal boundary:
"Hey, I'm really sorry, that sounds tough but I really don't have the capacity to help/listen right now"
From there you can maybe point them to someone who can help
"I do know of this resource you could maybe try"
Geshman t1_j2644rg wrote
Reply to comment by ArsBrevis in Why aren’t enough people taking about Willow right now? by [deleted]
I was mildly high and hated it
Geshman t1_jabf9jn wrote
Reply to comment by KrazyKev03 in [OC] Earnings data from all my orders as a food courier! by KrazyKev03
And that is only the profit? After gas and mileage that's pretty rough