HidetheCaseman89
HidetheCaseman89 t1_ixecxsz wrote
Reply to comment by Jason_CO in Sheep flocks operate as a type of ‘collective intelligence’ and elect temporary leaders to guide them while moving. The fluidity of this process is extremely surprising. by nimobo
To the corrupt, it's not a choice, it's a lifestyle. They don't see any other option. It's simply "How it's done."
HidetheCaseman89 t1_jdgyoqo wrote
Reply to Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish
If you don't have a path to recovery, having to behave like an adult in childhood can result in behaving like a child in adulthood, keeping the cycle going.
One of the hardest experiences I've had to grow through is realizing I actually am more mature than my household. That it was reasonable to be a reflection of the environment I grew up in. Growing out of that mould sure feels like breaking something sometimes.
It's super weird seeing the bad patterns and stuff in others after unlearning it. A special kind of sting.