Good to hear and yeah, its 99% of reddit. The old meme being "He frowned near you, divorce! Red Flag! Lawyer up!" You know what I mean. It's just over the top social media dummies screeching.

OP you are fine. Don't listen to anybody here, your relationship is normal. Perfect? No. But these things you work out. Ignore the people saying its toxic, or you should run etc etc. Stay with your husband, talk things through if needed and raise the kids. This is not internet worthy and handle your family. You'll be ok!

Reddit is going to insult you for being a stay at home mom, or one who works and everything in between. People on here are trash or idiots. Including me! Apologize, hug and try and make peace. Cheers!