JoshALLENspitonmepls

JoshALLENspitonmepls t1_j1lb7a8 wrote

Because he wants my ex’s mom not my ex. Dudes built like a flaccid penis anyway. Ex’s mom was nonstop involved in our issues because she drank daily and it made her feel like she wasn’t a shit mother. Problem is she never helped stop the abuse, she always took her daughters side or made things worse.

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JoshALLENspitonmepls t1_j1k7w9q wrote

Male victim here. I lived through it for seven years. When I simply tried leaving the first time she called the police and said I had hit her. I was covered with bruises and cuts, both fresh and old. She didn’t have a mark on her. Didn’t stop the cop from getting in my face like he was going to beat the shit out of me.

Three weeks later I escaped for the second time. I was playing league of legends with my friends and was just happy to be out. I made it home to NY to my mom and grandma. A cop who’s a family friend to my ex’s mom (he wants to fuck her and has wanted to for 20 years) showed up and told me that I was suicidal and needed to be taken to a hospital immediately. I had no clue what the fuck he was talking about but my ex and her drunk of a mother used to use their moms “cop friend” as a threat and now he was right in front of me. I informed him that I wasn’t suicidal and that the only person that would’ve called that in was my abuser. Also I informed him that my family could attest that I was okay. Didn’t matter. He threatened me with arrest and wouldn’t let me shut my door. I was taken to Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester NY. My trauma reaction to the situation is that I had been kidnapped.

I was given two options in life. Return to my abuser or have this police officer harassing my family and embarrassing us to our neighbors constantly.

If anyone wonders why women wait twenty years to report things… here ya go

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