Londonforce

Londonforce t1_ja53w40 wrote

You fix it by realizing you hurt people for no reason, and you mature to the level where you can watch your ex be happy because she's with a better man.

If it makes you feel any better, she has almost certainly found a better quality partner by now, or would be able to without much trouble when she wants, so her happiness of not being with you is virtually guaranteed.

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Londonforce t1_j6hpxjo wrote

I think that's a good observation. Telling people you plan on doing something remarkable usually gets a bit of praise. Maybe getting a bit of your positive emotions in advance makes you less likely to hold out for the whole thing.

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Londonforce t1_j6e56k8 wrote

Never tell anyone your goals. I don't know why it works, but it does.

Show up at work on Monday having run a marathon the day before. Don't let people even know that you run or started running. Once you make yourself the only audience that matters you have everything you need

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Londonforce t1_j28a8pq wrote

>The lawyers DID provide legal advice that the client was not to be contacted about meeting with anyone, that it had to go through them, which the client signed off on, in the form of the 'no contact notice'.

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>You're too fixated on it just being about the roast, and it's not, it's anyone.

That's not what I'm fixated on. I'm fixated on whether or not his lawyers ever told him "don't talk to ANYONE without our presence" BEFORE he signed a release to participate in the interview. Lawyers told him what to (never) do, and then after he decided to do that.

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Londonforce t1_j261luh wrote

That's the only part that confuses me. What I know from the article is that;

  • the lawyers sent a notice to the prison for their client to not participate
  • the client participated, and even signed a release to do so
  • the lawyers never provided legal advice to the client about doing it not doing the interview

I don't get how the lawyers involved could take action against participation (by notifying the prison), but then never discuss this with their client?

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