Yeah, I know. I guess I was hoping for some magic solution. Thanks for the reality check.

He twists everything to find a way to no be at fault. I woke him up one day last week because he was supposed to go get important papers while I worked from home and he was oversleeping. I tried three different times to shake him or say his name, but nothing was working. So I went in and said louder (not screaming but slightly louder than my normal talking voice) "Husband Name, if you were going to get the documents, you need to get up and get going". His first words to me once he was up were "I've told you before how to wake me up. You have to be nicer." He was mad I 'go straight to yelling" when I wasn't even yelling and he didn't hear me when I tried to be quiet...

I do feel lonely, even when we are together. We were watching a movie and he was staying at his phone for most of it just scrolling through Facebook.

I just want to feel wanted...the only time he shows interested in me is when he wants to get physical, and I am just not interested with this emotional gulf in the marriage. And he thinks that's the main problem...

The standard answers. I love him. Our good days make me happy. It's nice to not be alone...

I will try, but we are in a one bedroom apartment, and there's really not much space. Thank you for the advice.

Thank you for sharing the advice.

And I have no idea. I agree it's annoying.

What was the good point? It was deleted before I could see it.

The reason I've been reluctant to take that jump is it's really not feasible. He makes about half what I do, and can't afford the rent on the apartment without me. And I really can't split my pay between a hotel and the apartment. Neither of us have family in the area, so that's not really an option, either.