A good person with good values, and a good mind.

It’s not as common as you might expect.

I heard that correlates with morality.

Why not “humans with a penis”

“Penis owner” sounds idiotic.

Yeah maybe, and honestly it is a rude way to respond. Should always think before speaking, generally.

I don’t know for fact what was said, nor the specific context of their relationship and their conversation, but if your family has problems, maybe don’t bring up problems in someone else’s family.

That’s all. It’s a general statement.

That’s a good outlook, but to clarify my feelings about it, he did mention your family first, that’s on him, unless what he said was vanilla by comparison you shouldn’t feel too badly about what you said.

Sounds like he took the first jab, if you live in a glass house you shouldn’t throw stones. I would remind him of that and apologize on top of it, then let that be that and maybe he just wants time to process the situation, and whatever happens, it is what it is.