Rosebunse

Rosebunse t1_jb7l00v wrote

I think that's why I'm mad at God. It can happen to me. It can happen to all of us. God works in mysterious ways and all that. There is a greater plan but that doesn't mean we're going to like our place in it.

And when I bring this up in church or with religious people, dear God do they hate me for it.

That poor little boy. All I can think of is how he spent his last moments on Earth wondering why his father wasn't helping him, wasn't picking him up and getting him ready for their day or feeding him. It's all I can think of. No one was being cruel there, the dad just died. His family called within a reasonable amount of time, really. No one was being cruel here.

I can't stop crying. I have been crying about it all day.

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Rosebunse t1_jb7idlb wrote

I don't know, I think it's more than that. People want to know that life has meaning and purpose. And these big churches provide that.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/toddler-starved-home-father-59-died-new-york-apartment-officials-say-rcna57579

Take this story. I can't stop crying let it, I don't understand it. I'm mad at God and the universe. But when you add organized religion to it, it turns it into something else. You can blame the Devil or say there was some greater purpose here. Or you can loon smugly and say that this senseless tragedy could never happen to you.

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Rosebunse t1_jacc86v wrote

The Catholic church has a lot of problems, but I generally think out of all Christian sects, they do exorcism the best. Mostly because, as this article points out, the Catholic church actually doesn't see every single case as demonic. And their method of exorcism is usually a lot more gentle and less disturbing than what we see from non-Catholic churches. It really is just a prayer, and as it is pointed out, the priest performing the exorcism is supposed to do all of this in collaboration with the person's medical team.

So many non-Catholic churches have a problem with that last part, where the afflicted are encouraged to go off their meds and disengage from their medical care team.

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Rosebunse t1_ja0ynq8 wrote

This makes me think of all those videos online of people who keep "pet" bees. I thought most of them were silly, but what if the bee really did just decide that it wanted to stay with this person from now on?

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