SmartFX2001 t1_iuk98c1 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:37 PM

Reply to Thinking about leaving my cat by Own_League566

If you take your cat, she’ll have an adjustment period getting used to your new place, but cats are pretty resilient and can adapt.

If you decide to take her with you, be sure to bring something from where she lived before - like a cat bed or a catnip toy.

It’ll have her scent on it, which will give her some comfort.

SmartFX2001 t1_iuk7dwr wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:22 PM

Reply to comment by Throwaway785587 in My father is cheating on my mother by Throwaway785587

He put you in this position by bringing his girlfriend to the house where he lives with his wife and children, to spend the night!

SmartFX2001 t1_iuk4tpp wrote on October 31, 2022 at 11:02 PM

Reply to My nasty secret that I managed to keep it to myself until this far is about to get discovered tomorrow. I don't know what to do. by FewBee7489

I know everything has snowballed and you don’t feel you can get out of it….

First of all, do NOT check out of the world. YOU need to be the one to tell your parents the truth - definitely do not leave it for your mother’s friend to do.

It’s going to be hard, and they will probably be upset and disappointed, but you will feel a huge weight off your shoulders. You were so burdened by the lies you were not able to move forward.